Let’s use
selling as
an example.
People
generally
see selling
as a person
being in the
state of
taking… Well
would you
like to know
the biggest
problem some
people have
with selling
something to
another
person? They
feel by them
selling it
to someone
they are
taking
something
away from
them…
But as soon
as they know
they were
selling
something of
high value
and letting
someone have
it for a
bargain
price…
instantly
they see how
selling it
is of
benefit to
the other
person’s
life.
When they
make that
tiny change,
all of a
sudden they
slip into
harmony and
they go out
of their way
to sell to
the other
person.
Simply
because they
now see the
benefit for
them and it
now feels
right for
them to
sell.
Now this
sales person
is going to
give, and
their
getting is
an automatic
benefit.
Their taking
is not
something
they need to
work on, as
they are not
taking, they
are getting.
All they
need to work
on is going
to give and
they will
get
automatically…
There is
simply no
need to be a
taker as
this is the
simple way
for how to
succeed in
life…
Side note: -
I am not
referring to
all sales
people of
course, as
this state
of mind can
be
manufactured
too. I am
sure you
know what I
mean.
However,
selling
something of
benefit and
of high
value to
someone else
for a
bargain
price is
just being
in harmony.
And it is
the natural
way we are
designed to
be.
Basically it
is in our
nature to
want to help
people as
long as it
doesn’t hurt
us to do so.
A Key To
Success Is
Going With
The Flow
We are
benefits
driven
creatures by
nature. By
nature we
instinctively
know that by
sharing we
get more,
even though
appearances
are to the
contrary. In
the world we
are brought
up in, when
we go and
take
something,
we know
instinctively
we are
taking...
and it
doesn’t feel
right.
Giving feels
right,
taking feels
wrong. One
is going
with the
flow and the
other is
opposing it.
Harmony and
being in it
is just
going with
the flow and
it is an
essential
ingredient
for true
success in
life. When I
say
essential, I
mean
essential
for your
success.
Getting
feels like
just being
rewarded for
service done
for others.
Getting is
not
something we
need to put
effort into
as getting
should be an
automatic
event after
giving. This
is using the
law of least
effort to
create
success.
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"Successful people find themselves compelled to give of themselves and give of their riches, because it is natural and it feels good. It also feels good to them to get as well, as why wouldn't it?" |
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From a very
young age
though we
are taught
to take, so
this becomes
our
predominant
way of
thinking. It
doesn’t mean
it is
natural or
in harmony…
It is just
the way we
are taught
to do it. We
are taught
to take
because
there may
not be
enough to go
around…
However, we
live in an
abundant
Universe
which is
always
growing and
expanding -
we are
abundant
creatures.
It is
natural to
give freely
because
instinctively
we always
know there
will be
more.
We know this
instinctively
as children.
However,
with every
passing day
we are
taught and
programmed,
first by
adults, then
the media,
then our own
peer group…
We are
taught that
life isn’t
really like
that and we
can’t just
give, we
have to
take… So we
one day stop
thinking
selflessly
and start
thinking
selfishly.
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Once
we
have
got
to
that
point
then
the
chances
of
our
success
in
life
diminishes
greatly.
If
you
doubt
this
then
just
look
at
the
world,
you
will
see
the
world
is
FULL
of
takers
and
there
are
only
a
minute
few
successful
people.
I
could
spend
hours
convincing
you
that
taking
is
the
wrong
way
to
do
it,
or
you
could
simply
decide
that
this
may
be
right…
But
the
way
we
are
taught
is
to
go
against
the
flow
not
to
go
with
it.
So
we
look
for
reasons
to
assume
something
different
is
wrong. |
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The funny
thing is
that it is
in
selflessness,
i.e.
‘Giving’,
where our
abundant
success is
hiding.
Napoleon
Hill wrote,
“You can
have
anything you
want, if you
find enough
other people
to help.”
One Way To
Achieve
Massive And
Fast
Business
Success
So if riches
are what you
desire, then
just look to
create
massive
value for
others and
sell what
you produce
for the
lowest
possible
price. This,
if you like,
is the
secret of
success…
Find a way
to do that
and you will
succeed in
life and become
abundantly
rich…
Here’s what
I mean:-
The top 10
most
successful
websites on
the planet…
| 1 |
Google |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 2 |
Facebook |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 3 |
YouTube |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 4 |
Yahoo |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 5 |
Blogger |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 6 |
Baidu |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 7 |
Wikipedia |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 8 |
Windows Live |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 9 |
Twitter |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
| 10 |
QQ.com |
Goes to give – they get automatically |
How many of
those
companies
were around
10 years
ago?
How many
were around
15 years
ago?
The vast
majority in
the top 100
are all at
the lowest
price point
and all
deliver
amazing
value for a
huge number
of people…
So could
this be the
secret to
successful
business in
this
century?
By those
entrepreneurs
designing a
business to
serve, their
getting
becomes
automatic –
They went to
give not
take – It is
a state of
mind thing!
The internet
has freed up
business
from the
need to get
in the same
way they
once did.
Now business
success can
work more in
tune with
how we are
naturally
designed to
work.
The Natural
Steps To
Success
If you want
to get more
then you
simply need
to focus on
giving more.
Because as
you give,
this creates
a vacuum and
nature
abhors a
vacuum… So
shortly
after you
give, or
sometimes
even when
you just
intend to
give… the
law of
reciprocation
kicks in and
it rushes in
to fill up
this vacuum.
If you wish
to be in
harmony with
your natural
being, if
you wish to
feel good
all of the
time, then
simply take
your mind
away from
taking and
getting and
allow
yourself to
consider
ways to help
others. Go
to give, and
you cannot
help but
get. Go to
get and you
will get
more of
that, which
is -
‘wanting to
get!’
All the time
you want to
get, you and
your
thoughts are
in the state
of intending
to take.
This is out
of harmony
and you are
trying to
force
things.
Learning how
to be
successful
is all about
learning to
go with the
flow and not
have to
force
things.
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All
you
have
to
do
is
get
yourself
into
the
state
of
intending
to
give,
then
just
be
open
to
getting
at
some
point
in
the
future.
Just
ensure
that
you
do
not
need
to
get
in
order
for
you
to
give…
Giving
has
to
come
before
getting
to
be
in
harmony
with
the
flow.
If
you
need
it
or
want
it
to
happen,
then
you
won’t
get
what
you
want.
Instead
you’ll
get
more
wanting
it.
If
you
let
go
of
needing
or
wanting
and
just
go
to
give,
as
soon
as
you
get
into
this
harmonious
mindset,
all
of
life
will
start
appearing
to
conspire
to
just
go
your
way…
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What has
actually
happened is
you have
stopped
fighting the
natural way
and started
going with
the flow
instead…
Successful
people do
this
instinctively
as they
still have
access to
their
natural
success
mindset. If
you are not
successful
yet then you
lost yours
at some
point.
Getting that
back is
essential to
you
achieving
the success
you desire
for yourself
in life.
So much of
what we have
been taught
goes against
the flow of
life. When
you know
this you
begin to
understand
exactly why
it has
seemingly
been
impossible
for you to
succeed.
However, it
isn't
impossible.
In fact your
success is a
natural
thing, a
life of
failure is
an unnatural
thing.
Society
really does
have this
backwards
and all you
have to do,
to get back
to a natural
success
mindset is
to learn the
correct way
of thinking.
That may
sound hard
but it
isn't,
afterall it
is the way
you used to
think before
society told
you their
way. If
you're ready
to once
again access
your natural
success
mindset then
the one
thing I
would advise
you to do is
to read the
first five
chapters of
my book
"Creating A
Bug Free
Mind."
There is
magic in
there which
you will
discover as
you read,
the first
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not
have all of
the answers,
but they
will give
you an
experience
of clearing
a few of
your bugs
which will
mean that
you'll look
at life in a
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