You see,
words can be
good and
bad, even
though they
sometimes
look like
they can be
just bad, or
just good.
The human
herd seeks
to see view
things as
black or
white… The
minority of
successful
people just
views things
as they are
and accept
them this
way… In
doing so
they are not
holding onto
something
and trying
to force it.
Instead they
are looking
for ways to
nudge with
the least
effort
possible the
flow of ‘the
way it is’
in a
direction
which will
benefit
them. The
abundant
world of the
unsuccessful
people see
failure as a
wholly bad
thing. The
scarce world
of
successful
people see
the word
failure as a
natural part
of success.
Successful
people see
that failure
is just
something
you must
pass through
to achieve
success,
i.e.
~Success
lies on the
far side of
failure~
Thomas J
Watson.
So the
successful
see and
accept that
the venture
they are on
in its
current
guise may
indeed fail,
but the
lessons they
will learn
on this
failure will
guide them
to far
greater
success
elsewhere.
This means
that there
is no fear
of failure,
as failure
will
eventually
lead to
success... This is just
a natural
self
confidence
trait which
we all have
instinctively…
However,
unsuccessful
people have
just lost
touch with
their
natural
instincts.
You must get
back in
touch with
them if you
ever wish to
become
successful.
And just
because
successful
people know
that failure
will
increase
their future
success if
it happens,
doesn’t mean
they think
it all the
time. It
just means
that they
accept it
automatically
so it
requires no
effort, no
distraction
of focus, no
thought at
all, it just
is. As in
when they
get a
setback,
they know it
is temporary
and just
part of the
process….
They do not
beat
themselves
up about it,
it just is. |
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"Successful people see the benefits of failure, they see it as an essential ingredient for eventual and certain success. They do not like it though, they just accept it as part of their journey." |
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Doing All
You Can Do
To Succeed,
Not Doing
All You Can
Do To
Prevent
Failure
One of the
keys to
success is
the fact
that the
successful
person
recognises
the risk of
failure in a
new venture
or in a new
pursuit and
does
whatever
they can to
mitigate the
risk. When
they fail
they work to
contain the
fallout and
minimise the
damage too…
They do not
beat
themselves
up about the
failure,
they accept
that it has
happened.
And they
accept fully
their part
in it, they
know they
were
responsible.
Unsuccessful
people look
for ways
that they
can find
scapegoats,
but secretly
know they
are
responsible…
They just
hope no one
else will
find out.
In fact one
of the most
common
traits of a
successful
person is
that they
can go from
disappointment
to
disappointment
with no loss
of
enthusiasm.
They are
confident in
their
ability to
turn it
around. They
appreciate
the lessons
they’ve just
learnt… They
discover
their
mistakes and
use them to
inspire
greater
success.
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In
other
words,
failure
was
not
what
they
wanted,
but
the
fact
that
it
showed
up
will
be
used
to
enhance
the
construction
of
their
future
success…
They
transmute
failure
into
success.
With
a
successful
mindset
there
are
no
confidence
issues
to
be
dealt
with,
as
being
self
confident
is a
given
to a
successful
person.
To
think
about
low
self
esteem,
building
their
self
respect,
lack
of
confidence,
would
be
focusing
on
nothing
of
any
value.
How
can
any
of
that
help
them
get
where
they
want
to
go. |
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Thinking
this way is
all just
part of the
human
natural
success
system, the
way
unsuccessful
people
destroy
their self
esteem and
confidence
is a product
of the
unnatural
thought
patterns
which
society
teaches and
preaches.
Successful
people
transmute
failure into
their own
self
improvement,
whereas
unsuccessful
people know
that failure
means they
are less of
a person. To
a successful
person their
self respect
and self
worth are a
given, to an
unsuccessful
person
failure
knocks their
self respect
and their
self worth
down.
You See
Failure As
Wholly Bad…
I Find The
Good In It
If you think
something is
wholly bad,
then you
will be
right. If
you seek to
find the
good from
it, then one
day you will
find it.
The word
failure and
the act of
failing
instinctively
means
different
things to
different
people. But
the key
difference
is how a
successful
person pays
no mind (no
attention)
to all of
the key
traits that
an
unsuccessful
person
focuses
on...
In other
words: -
“To a
successful
person it is
a given that
this failure
will lead to
greater
success.”
“To an
unsuccessful
mindset,
this failure
is proof of
their
inability to
succeed.”
Remember
whatever you
give your
dominant
thought to
becomes
your
reality.
See here how
a successful
person’s
mindset
views
failure and
their
dominant
attention is
focused on
success.
Whereas an
unsuccessful
person’s is
focused on
even greater
failure
being in
their
future.
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| How an unsuccessful person feels and looks at things after a failure – 99.86% of the world look at failure this way… |
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| How a successful person feels and looks at things after a failure – 0.14% of the world look at failure this way… |
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| “My self confidence is at an all time low… I can’t even think about starting something again and the thought of failing again is just too painful. Honestly I can’t get past this failure.” (So the one time failure may have been transmuted into a permanent failure for them) |
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| “Well I suppose I had a very, very, tiny knock in my confidence, but I could instantly see how I could get it right next time thanks to seeing how I failed here.” (So they transmuted the failure into a gain in confidence of the next venture) |
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| “Look, my self esteem is in the toilet right now. I am surprised anyone wants to even be around me after what I just did.” (Their failure destroys their self esteem because they make the failure them and assume others will think less of them because of it. They now assume they were right to not even try and they wish they hadn't. They regret their mistakes and do not notice the success in their actions) |
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| “No, this hasn’t knocked my self esteem, why the heck would it do that? Just because I got it wrong here doesn’t mean I will get it wrong moving forward. After all this will now enhance my success when it happens.” (So they transmuted failure into a gain in self esteem. They accept fully their failure but see all of the benefits in it. They are grateful for what they have learnt) |
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| “I see myself now as someone who is just not destined to be a successful person.” (They transmuted temporary failure into life-long total failure) |
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| “So I made a few wrong decisions, at least I was up there making the decisions, living my life, not waiting to die. What has self image got to do with it?” (They transmute failure into an increase in their self-image, the failure was not them, the failure was a result of making the wrong decisions. They will simply learn from it and move on...) |
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| “I don’t think I can ever trust myself to try anything again.” (They lose respect for themselves because now they know that their failure is not a failure in what they are doing. But it is them, they are a failure. They have transmuted a failure into a far, far greater failure... They allow it to destroy their lives) |
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| “Why would I have lost respect for myself? I hadn’t even given that a thought until you mentioned it.” (No loss of self respect, in fact they are pleased with themselves for getting on with it. They are grateful that they have learned so much from the failure and they are inspired to do more next time... So without thought their self respect grows) |
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| “Well obviously I’m not as good as I thought or hoped I was.” (They know their self worth is now less, they think that they should not have tried and they accept that they are not cut out to be a success. Their self worth was low before. Now it is at rock bottom, as they know that while they were trying to be a success, they secretly already knew they were a failure and that pretty soon they would be found out.) |
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| “Do I think my self worth has been knocked…? What, are you serious? After all look at all these new skills I've acquired. This is now my chance to begin again more intelligently.” (They did not even consider it. This is the law of least effort and successful people are in tune with it. Thinking that this knocked their self worth would not help them where to go so why would they ever have thought about it?) |
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| “I need to help myself out of this, I think I'd better go to a psychiatrist or a doctor and see if I can get some pills and some psychiatric care to help me deal with all of the issues my failure as an (insert what you did) has brought into my life.” (They know that they cannot help themselves, so they look for a crutch, for someone else to help them through. They know they are less of a person now because of their failure, so need medication of some sort to make themselves normal again – Obviously they know that they will never be a success and that part of their life is over… because it was never meant to be!) |
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| “It’s happened. Yes, I've taken a knock back because of this failure. But I just need to find ways that I can use this failure. Lessons I can learn from it so that I won’t make the same mistakes again. Thanks to this failure my success in the future is much more certain now… After all look at all this new stuff I learned.” (They are enthused by the failure, they are transmuting it into their future success, they are using their failure to give them a leg up as fast as possible) |
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| 99.86% of the world looks at failure this way… Is it any wonder that there are so many unsuccessful people? |
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| 0.14% of the world looks at failure this way… Is it any wonder why there are so few successful people? |
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We successful people look at you unsuccessful people and think, “Why do they think that way? It’s not helping them?” |
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You unsuccessful people look at successful people and think, “How do they do it? I wish I was that good.” |
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Self
Confidence
Unsuccessful
people
know
their
confidence
is
low
and
know
that
they
always
have
to
be
aware
of
it.
As
if
they
don’t
then
their
confidence
will
sink
to
even
lower
levels.
Successful
people
are
just
confident,
so
they
do
not
need
to
consider
confidence
as
it
is
just
a
given
that
they
must
have
that
for
success…
So
what
would
be
the
point
of
focusing
on
it? |
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Self
Esteem
Unsuccessful
people
know
they
have
to
work
at
keeping
their
self
esteem
up,
otherwise
it
will
fall.
So
they
focus
on
it
and
of
course
create
a
lack
of
it.
Successful
people
have
high
self
esteem
so
they
don’t
waste
a
moment
of
life
considering
it…
It
does
not
help
them
get
to
where
they
want
to
go.
Successful
people
are
therefore
still
in
tune
with
their
‘natural
success
mindset’,
whereas
unsuccessful
people
have
lost
complete
touch
with
theirs.
They
get
glimpses
of
it
occasionally,
and
then
as
they
get
close
to
it
again,
it
appears
to
disappear
off
round
the
corner…
This
is
why
they
are
searching
for
the
missing
piece. |
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Self
Image
Unsuccessful
people
see
themselves
as
failures
and
look
for
ways
to
improve
their
image
of
themselves.
However,
as
they
search
they
find
ways
to
enhance
their
self
image
as a
failure.
Successful
people
see
themselves
as
successful
people
already
(before
the
rest
of
the
world
notices
them
as a
success).
Successful
people
know
the
fact
that
whatever
they
are
doing
will
succeed
in
time.
Whatever
we
focus
on
we
create
more
of.
Successful
people
create
success,
unsuccessful
people
create
failure,
and
we
all
do
it
just
by
our
thoughts. |
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Self
Respect
Unsuccessful
people
know
that
their
self
respect
can
only
improve
if
they
become
a
success.
Successful
people
don’t
think
about
their
self
respect
as
it
is a
given,
i.e.
of
course
they
respect
themselves…
Why
on
Earth
wouldn’t
they?
So
they
pay
it
no
attention
and
therefore
do
not
create
a
lack
of
it –
whatever
we
focus
on
we
create
more
of.
If
you
think
about
your
self
respect,
it
is
because
you
‘feel’
you
lack
it,
so
because
of
the
way
our
minds
work
you
instantly
create
more
what
you
lack. |
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Self
Worth
Unsuccessful
people
know
that
their
self
worth
can
only
improve
if
they
become
a
success.
Successful
people
don’t
think
about
their
self
worth
as
it
is a
given,
i.e.
they
are
worthy…
Why
on
Earth
wouldn’t
they
be?
So
they
pay
it
no
attention
and
therefore
do
not
create
a
lack
of
it –
whatever
we
focus
on
we
create
more
of.
If
you
think
about
self
worth,
it
is
because
you
‘feel’
you
lack
it,
so
because
of
the
way
our
minds
work
you
instantly
create
more
what
you
lack. |
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Self
Help
Unsuccessful
people
are
trained
to
think
that
they
must
look
for
self
help
to
find
what
they
have
missing.
Successful
people
know
that
self
help
will
enhance
their
mindset
not
create
it. |
It’s all
In the Way
We Look At
Things… It
Is What We
Know To Be
True
The
difference
is that
unsuccessful
people know
it is one
way about
all the
negative
things… So
they look to
always have
this view
reinforced
like a self
vindication…
‘See,
I told you
I’m
useless!’
Whereas
successful
people are
merely
benefits
driven
creatures…
They
naturally
know to only
pay
attention to
what
benefits
them.
Failure has
harmed their
progress so
they
instinctively
and very
naturally
seek out the
benefit in
the failure…
This is to
enhance
their future
success…
They ONLY
look for the
benefits,
they do not
seek to
blame. It
has happened
and they
have already
moved on…
simply
because they
know
(without
thought)
that
dwelling on
the failure
holds no
benefit for
their
future.
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An
unsuccessful
person has
been trained
from when
they first
went to
school to
see failure
as a bad,
horrid,
ghastly
thing to be
avoided…
Successful
people were
programmed
that way
too.
However,
they just
instinctively
knew that
this was
bollo*ks and
that there
are benefits
in
everything
when you
bother to
seek them
out.
They also
know that a
failure
isn’t them,
it is just
an event
which
happened, it
is not
happening.
Whereas an
unsuccessful
person knows
that the
failure was
them, was
their fault
and that
they are
useless and
deserved it…
So for them
the failure
hasn’t
happened, it
is still
happening!
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"Successful people know they can live life on their terms, they do it their way and do not waste much time considering what other people think." |
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Whatever you
KNOW is
true, is
true for
you… It
doesn’t mean
it is true,
it is just
true for
you…
Whatever you
focus on you
create more
of… If you
seek to
improve your
self
confidence,
then you
will need to
always
improve it.
You are
treating the
symptom with
some
medicine…
Instead you
should work
on removing
the cause of
the dis-ease.
You are
seeking to
key your
bugs
suppressed
with
temporary
medicine…
Which when
you stop
taking it
will allow
the bugs to
grow back
stronger
than ever.
However,
what you
want to be
is ‘Bug
Free.’
Everybody
has 'bugs'
faulty bits
of
programming
including
successful
people, it
is just
successful
people do
not have
bugs in
their system
which
prevent
success in
certain
areas.
If success
hasn't shown
up for you
yet and you
see far too
many of the
unsuccessful
persons
traits in
your own
mindset then the
question I
have for you
is…
ARE YOU
WILLING TO
CONTINUE TO
LIVE WITH
BUGS AND
'HOPE'
YOU WILL
'SOMEHOW'
SOLVE
THE
PROBLEMS. OR
ARE YOU
READY TO
TAKE YOUR
LIFE TO THE
NEXT STAGE?
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Are
you
going
to
just
be
another
one
of
the
millions
of
people
who
just
talk
about
success
and
becoming
successful…
Or
are
you
going
to
take
your
thinking
to a
whole
new
level?
If
you
want
to
know
all
the
steps,
top
to
bottom
and
front
to
back
for
how
to
easily
change
your
thinking
to a
higher
level
then
I
have
a
hint
for
you…
Go
and
read
the
first
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chapters
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people and
wondering
‘if’ you
will ever be
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