Usually
both
husbands and
wives work,
otherwise
they could
not have
stuff… So
stress
builds up
and this is
just one of
the many
reasons why
less and
less people
are getting
married but
the divorce
rate does
not go down…
Which means
of course
that it is
increasing…
Stress
is
everywhere,
and people
make a
fortune
selling ways
to control
your stress
or how to
relieve
stress... And
of course medicine
does its bit
to give you
pills to
help you
feel less
stressed.
You buy into
this need to
control
stress… as
obviously
you can’t
cure this
demon…
Have you
ever asked
but why
can’t it be
cured…? Well
of course it
can but
there is no
money in the
cure,
there’s
money in
controlling
stress… So
what I’m
offering is
the cure as
life is far
too short to
live life so
stressed.
And besides,
there’s far
more
enjoyable
ways for me
to make
money than
by selling
how to
control
stress. So
I’ll just
give you the
cure
instead.
Stress is
not its own
entity; it
is not a
disease but
a dis-ease.
Stress is
just
something we
create
ourselves in
our minds.
Yes, we are
the creators
of the
nightmare we
live in. In
doing this
we do not
live well as
we damage
our own
wellbeing.
But stress
is just a
choice…
I know this
may sound
very easy
but you can
choose to
not be
stressed…. I
can hear
what you are
saying, ‘No
you can’t!’,
‘Don’t be
stupid!’, ‘I
wish!’ Or
any other
one of a
thousand
sentences…
But the
truth is you
can, stress
is a choice,
stress is
something
you are
choosing to
do, because
you are not
choosing not
to.
Nothing
stands still
and if you
are not
choosing to
not be
stressed,
then you are
choosing to
be stressed
in your lack
of choice
and
presence.
When you are
present then
you cannot
be stressed,
but that’s
really for
another
time. What
I’m going to
share with
you here is
why you are
stressed.
You are
almost
certainly
stressed
because you
have chosen
to do too
much. Or you
have had
something
happen which
did not go
your way. Or
you are
worried that
something
which is yet
to happen
will not go
your way.
So you are
creating
your stress
by allowing
it to be
there, you
are allowing
it to be
there
because you
are not
accepting
what is.
There is
magic in
those 3
little words
if you are
willing to
tell your
ego to shut
up talking
for a
second… |
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You see,
your ego
likes you
being
stressed as
it knows you
are not
present, and
if you are
not present
then it has
you trapped
inside your
mind either
in the past
or in the
future…
But you are
not here
now. You are
here now
obviously as
you are
reading this
:-) What I
mean is when
your stressed
you are not
here now,
you are
either in
the future
or in the
past. Here
now is the
only place
where you
are free
from stress.
So if you
want to be
free of
stress then
there is a
simple
technique
which you
must apply
to remain
here now.
1.
Accept
what
is |
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Whatever
has
happened,
whatever
you
have
brought
into
your
life,
and
whatever
you
think
you
haven’t,
have
all
happened.
The
past
cannot
be
changed,
so
you
just
simply
accept
what
is.
In
doing
this
you
are
removing
the
strength
of
anything
the
past
can
do
to
you.
The
past
can
only
harm
you
of
course
if
you
allow
it
to.
If
you
do
not
allow
it
to
then
it
can
do
you
no
harm
at
all.
So
accept
what
is,
as
it
cannot
be
changed. |
2.
Surrender
to
whatever
is
going
to
happen |
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This
is
you
accepting
that
whatever
will
happen
will
work
out
for
the
best
for
you…
Even
if
it
looks
like
it
will
be
bad
at
the
time.
We’ve
all
had
things
happen
which
felt
bad
at
the
time
and
then
turned
out
to
be
the
best
thing.
Well
just
accept
that
things
will
always
work
out
for
the
best.
This
doesn’t
mean
you
cannot
work
diligently
towards
preventing
what
you
don’t
want
to
happen.
It
just
means
that
if
it
does
happen
then
you
will
accept
it
then.
Until
it
does,
you
will
do
all
you
can
to
avoid
it
but
you
are
just
not
emotionally
attached
to
it.
Attachment
causes
stress.
This
way
it
enables
you
to
surrender
to
it
and
it
frees
you
from
the
stress
you
created. |
3.
Just
be
where
you
are |
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Live
now,
recognise
that
you
are
the
creator
of
your
stress,
so
simply
decide
that
you
will
live
now
in
this
moment
and
do
all
you
can
to
do
all
you
are
doing…
However,
you
are
just
choosing
to
no
longer
be
stressed
by
it.
When
you
notice
stress
building
up
in
the
future,
all
you
have
to
do
is
simply
notice
it
and
remember
you
are
allowing
it
to
build
up
in
your
absence
of
presence.
This
is
the
power
of
awareness.
As
you
become
aware,
you
gain
control
because
you
noticed
that
you
are
the
creator
of
your
stress.
Then
by
accepting
what
is,
you
can
master
it
and
no
longer
allow
stress
into
your
life.
It
will
come
in,
we
are
busy
after
all,
but
just
notice
it,
accept
it
is
there
and
now
needs
to
be
let
go
of.
There
is
nothing
to
control,
you
merely
have
to
let
go
of
it.
As
you
do
this
you
will
hear
your
mind
fighting
with
you.
Listen
to
the
insanity
of
it
wanting
to
find
ways
to
get
you
to
hang
on
to
your
stress…
These
moments
are
precious,
as
you
for
the
first
time
are
getting
to
see
the
controller
of
your
life
and
how
it
has
manipulated
you
into
thinking
that
you
didn’t
bring
about
your
stress.
And
how
it
wasn’t
your
fault
that
you
are
now
stressed.
But
it
is
your
fault,
you
were
absent
and
so
you
allowed
the
controller
of
your
mind
to
bring
in
something
which
made
your
life
a
lot
harder…
The
secret
to
removing
the
stress,
as
well
as
the
controller,
is
to
accept
what
is
and
to
start
to
notice
its
actions. |
These are
the cause of
the nasty
things in
your life
and it is
bugs in your
mind. But if
you remember
to apply
those 3
magic words
(accept what
is) then you
will be a
lot less
stressed for
the rest of
your life.
There are a
lot of major
bugs and
thousands of
minor little
ones. In the
A Bug Free
Mind
process, I
give you the
tools and
techniques
to remove
the major
ones and
provide you
with the
techniques
required to
hunt out and
remove all
of the minor
ones.
If stress is
a big deal
to you and
you really
(actually -
in real
life) want
to be rid of
this horror
for good
then I
genuinely
recommend
you read my
books
"Creating
and Using A
Bug Free
Mind."
As despite
what you've
been told,
stress,
worry,
anxiety,
fear,
depression,
overwhelm
etc are all
dis-eases of
the mind and
can be cured
without
pills.
This is the
reason I
named my
books 'A Bug
Free
Mind'... no
joke as I
know jokes
are not what
you want to
hear right
now.
You see, you
asked to be
free of
stress,
anxiety,
worry,
fear...
whatever
ailment of
the mind you
feel trapped
by, you
asked to be
free of it,
and then
your
subconscious
mind found
its way
here. I
assure you,
your
subconscious
mind has not
let you
down, as
these
ailments
really can
be cured
without
pain,
without
pills, and
without
endless
visits to a
shrink.
To prove
this to you
I want to
recommend
that you
right now
stop what
you are
doing and go
and read the
first 5
chapters of
my book
"Creating A
Bug Free
Mind."
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When you do
this you
will
discover a
few tools
which will
INSTANTLY
reduce the
pressure and
your life
will change.
I guarantee,
your hopes
will not be
dashed and
that you
will find
there
exactly what
I am
promising.
My promise
to you is -
If I am
lying please
tell
everyone, if
I am not
then please
tell
everyone you
care
about...
You can
access the
five
chapters
here:
A Bug
Free Mind
Trial Offer
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